As I traverse our region, my attention is often drawn to the intricate web of overhead power lines. This unassuming yet complex system captivates me, as it serves to illuminate our streets and channel energy harnessed from wind turbines and solar farms to power schools, homes, and businesses. The surplus energy is cleverly stored in the grid for future use. This interconnected network mirrors the essence of my work as a counselor, where I keenly observe the ebb and flow of energy, power, creativity, vitality, and passion within various systems.

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Just as electrical energy requires grounding to prevent damage and shocks, I vigilantly monitor my clients for signs of being ungrounded, disengaged, or detached. I draw parallels between the potential disruptions in electrical power (blackouts and brownouts) and imbalances in the flow of personal energy. Just as energy sources must be securely connected to power essential domains, individuals require secure connections in their relationships with the community and the broader cultural system. The notion that connections fuel our world resonates deeply, emphasizing the vital role of human connections in sustaining us. My professional journey in counseling has afforded me the opportunity to explore these connections through the lens of Relational Cultural Theory (RCT).

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From my perspective as a relational therapist, counseling is a collaborative venture involving both counselor and client. The effectiveness of this process hinges on clear expectations and a shared commitment to respective roles. In my role as a facilitator of healing, I bring a higher level of insight initially but am equally dedicated to empowering clients and honoring their autonomy. I actively encourage clients to view themselves as integral contributors to their progress in treatment. Success, in my approach, lies in the exploration of relationships and external factors rather than a focus on internal pathology and mental illness. This methodology fosters confidence in clients' critical thinking abilities, ultimately fortifying the therapeutic alliance.